The author’s family members began to call her unreasonable for not agreeing to evenly split that sum of money among them all. She knew that would be a mistake. First of all, it would go against her grandfather’s wishes. Second of all, there were valid reasons not to give any of that money to her father, which she expands upon below in her full account of the disagreement. The only person whom she felt genuinely could have used some financial support was her younger sibling, who had not yet turned 18.
As several members of this online community mentioned, this author needs to trust her gut to stand her ground, regardless of how intimidating her family members are. That’s her money now, and if they want a piece of it, they should consider being nice first.
Author: Kayitsi.com
