“NTA
She’s an adult. She can find a way to pay for her own tuition. Like an adult. There are plenty of grants, scholarships, and loans for people who apply for them. Plenty of people don’t have mom and dad providing any of their education costs and they manage.
She chose to not want a relationship with you. You have no obligation to her. Even if you were her actual parent, you are not required to pay for her tuition.”
“I agree! NTA. She is an adult, there are jobs and loans she can do. Equally she can go to a local university as planned and have her full tuition paid. She’s making an adult decision and there are adult steps to planning for these decisions.
OP also said they’re saving it for a house which is their security. They should not have to sacrifice that.
This has nothing to do with the step parent relationship and everything to do with how one adult should not have to sacrifice for another, when the other is making choices as above. She’s not in danger, she’s not homeless, she’s not in crisis, she just wants a perfect life at the sacrifice of other adults.”
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