22-year-old woman secretly looks at best friend’s phone and finds a group chat without her: ‘I have been friends with these girls for 10, eight, and five years. I know that this group chat of theirs isn’t solely being used for events that I can’t attend’ – FAIL Blog

Bringing it up would be uncomfortable, to say the least, but I think it can be healing. It can be an opportunity for her friends to tell her what happened and, in the worst-case scenario, to reveal they don’t want to be friends with her anymore. Even if they try to lie or make excuses as to why they have a separate group chat, that’s still valuable information for her, and it can be enough of a wake-up call. What would you do given this situation?