30-year-old woman runs out of the headspace she needs to handle the jealousy she feels towards her decade-old best friend: ‘I’ve started resenting her for always having it so easy, always being just “lucky” and absolutely every single aspect of her life; – FAIL Blog

I want to start off by saying nobody really knows what’s going on inside another person’s life. It might seem all too perfect on Instagram and maybe in real life, but behind closed doors, who knows? Besides, for us, having a partner might be the ultimate goal, but for the person who has it, the ultimate goal might be achieving a salary like ours, or having a brand new washing machine, it can be anything. Let’s try to redefine the word perfect, or the phrase ‘having it all’. We might know what we want, but they can be very much unfulfilled with what they’ve got. I remember a long time ago, when I had a boyfriend, I used to get that kind of comments a lot, like I had the best boyfriend and we were so perfect and everything, and it’s true he was a great person and we were, all in all, a good couple, but I wasn’t happy in that relationship, and I had much trouble in my life back then, so again, not everything it’s what it seems.