In my way of seeing things, it’s always better to lose a friend who can have this type of attitude than to keep it. It’s painful when it happens; it’s tough, but it’s always a blessing in disguise. And I don’t mean it because this dude was dating his ex-wife; the ex-husband himself said that didn’t matter. I mean it because when we face adversity, or when friends do something to upset us, we should expect them to have the integrity to be honest and to offer to repair. This ex-friend seemed much more preoccupied with getting his way than with taking care of those who got hurt by his actions, and that speaks a lot more about him than it does about anyone else in this story. I sure hope the ex-wife talks to him at some point tho, and that she takes a good look at who she is getting in with.


