40-year-old questions his 28-year-old brother’s parenting, so he comes back saying that his teen kids are extremely disrespectful and seem to have no boundaries: ‘My brother said: “Oh, so you think my parenting is awful.” I straight up said yes’ – FAIL Blog

Don’t give out advice nobody asked for. No one cares!

I don’t understand why someone would get involved in something that has nothing to do with him and then pretend to get thanked for some useless advice nobody asked for in the first place. In this story, we get some brother that should have just kept his mouth shut over something that didn’t involve him, and that is not his problem at all. I think that getting involved with anyone’s parenting is something really personal, and unless you are some kind of specialist in the matter, your opinion is biased. You are talking from your experience, which is actually not a valid qualification.

I think the best thing to do when you are seeing a situation where the kid is going over the parent is to shut up. Is not dangerous and not your problem. So maybe don’t get involved in it. What’s even worse is to get involved in something that nobody asked you to and then want some kind of thanks for it. You shouldn’t have gotten involved in the first place. The best way to live in a society is to mind your business unless something really bad is happening. Other than that, mind your business! Your issues are yours. The other people’s issues are theirs. Only give out your opinion if they ask. That’s it.