Financial disagreements happen in relationships. But trust matters. Transparency matters. And it’s not the money itself that shows this boyfriend’s true colors, but his reaction when he was asked to do a reasonable thing. The fact that he kept her money without mentioning it and then acted offended when she asked about it is a red flag to me. It would even make me question the decision to move in with him in the first place, because trust and transparency around money are essential when you share a household with someone. And if things already started like this…



