When a relationship ends, the best course of action seems to be to let it be gone. But some may not think like that, unfortunately.
There is a problem that I’m starting to see in new relationships. There is this belief that love is always forever. Well, that’s not exactly right, and thinking that it is can lead to toxic and problematic couples. Nothing is really forever, but especially love. There are millions of reasons to end a relationship, millions. Thinking that you are going to be forever together with your girlfriend is nice and sweet, and it’s a good thing that you think that your future is together, but it becomes a problem if that blinds you from knowing that it can end. Of course, there is no point in being a couple if you think it’s going to end, but it’s not right to just believe that it can’t end.
This whole debacle that the user wrote about in this Reddit story got me thinking about the problem that some people have to understand that something is over. The reaction he had when his girlfriend broke up with him was as if the main thing was to discover why it happened, when in reality you don’t need a fully defined reason. It’s over, and that’s it. You can ask why, but it may not be just one thing, and it would probably make you incredibly sad. Also, the fact that most times when one of the people asks why is to see how they can fix it to get back together, and in reality, why would you want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with you?
Yes, your girlfriend dumped you, and? I get that it’s sad, and it frustrates you the fact that there is nothing else to do about it. Sometimes the way this is expressed is not the best one, and it is complicated to stay in charge of your emotions when these things happen. But you are gonna get over it, and maybe even fall in love again. A breakup isn’t the end of the world. And if as soon as your girlfriend tells you to break up you start thinking of all the things she did that you didn’t like… then why do you want to get back together? Basically, what would you wanna be with someone that doesn’t love you anymore? Don’t make the situation harder and just let it be. Relationships end, life moves on, you get over it.
Author: Kayitsi.com
