Girlfriend is tired of boyfriend being disorganized and untidy, so she blocks her card, causing a scene at a shop when he tried paying with it: ‘The cashier became suspicious, and they were considering calling the police.’ – FAIL Blog

Maybe you just need to break up with your boyfriend!

When we are in a relationship, it’s usual to excuse certain behaviors that you don’t like just because you are in love. This happens to everyone, even the best of us, especially when the couple lives together. But that doesn’t make it okay. It can be something small, like leaving the toilet seat up, that could be excused, is not that big of a deal. But other times it’s actually something bad. In the case of the story below, we encounter a boyfriend who doesn’t clean up after himself, yes, like a toddler. He is untidy and disorganized, but also dirty, as he leaves trash out of the bin. It’s disgusting, and the girlfriend telling this story wouldn’t have put up with this if it were anyone else. But she’s blindsided by love.

This woman tried talking to him, but it entered through one ear and got out through the other. It’s quite sad that a grown adult man has this kind of childlike behavior. And it is extremely disgusting. This woman, after having no response through talking, decided to block her credit card, which he uses, so he had no form of payment as some kind of punishment –yes, I also think that she is acting like a mother. They forgot about it till one day he used it to pay at a store, and it triggered the registry as a stolen card with almost got him in trouble with the police. After this, he became really mad at her.

I have a very strong opinion about this whole feud. She has to break up with him. I’m not normally recommending that to couples at all. I actually think that most issues can be resolved by talking. But in this case, I think that the man shouldn’t be in a relationship at all. If he wants to be disgusting and dirty, he may as well live alone. This whole situation is just her trying to save the relationship and make him change, and him being a child. They aren’t compatible. The best thing to end this whole issue is to break up. Stop expecting change from someone who has shown you multiple times that he doesn’t care what is best for you. Sometimes you need to let go. The best solution can be to break up, and I believe that in this case it is.