Guy talks trash about his boss to his girlfriend constantly, 1 year later finds out they’re friends: ‘The universe has a sense of humor’ – FAIL Blog

Have you ever experienced a weird real-life crossover?

You would hardly ever expect to find two people from entirely different circles who know each other. Especially when you personally know both of them and have never introduced them before. Our different social spheres tend to be completely separated: we have co-workers, college friends, childhood friends, family, and more. All of them are neatly organized so they never cross. Mind you, it’s not necessarily on purpose; it just happens naturally. And we like it that way; it keeps our thoughts organized. That’s why it feels so weird to mix people from different social circles. It’s unexpected, and confusing, and we’re not sure it’s gonna work. 

Reddit user u/Echo-Forge had one of these uncomfortable crossovers. He had been complaining to her girlfriend about his boss for a few months. Not so much, just the normal amount of ranting, and she laughed at the criticism, never mentioning anything else. One day, she posted a video of her new vacuum, and, surprise, the boss commented on it. But that’s not the weirdest part. The weirdest part was the boss knowing that it was his employee’s house. Talk about an invasion of privacy…

Let’s be mature about this. We don’t always know EVERYONE our partner knows; that’s relatively normal. Especially work people, when we work at different companies. So, it’s not impossible that the girlfriend found the boss on Instagram casually (or maybe he found her) and simply started to follow each other without knowing who he was. Maybe they have mutual friends, or live nearby. Who knows? Maybe she didn’t know that her boyfriend’s boss was the same guy she followed on social media. Maybe he has a really common name, and she didn’t put two and two together. Not everything has to be suspicious. 

My biggest question here is: how did the boss know whose house it was? That’s suspicious. And that’s why I would ask the girlfriend if she knows him in person or knows who he is. Just ask her something, anything, but ask HER.  Let’s just start asking our partners about the things that concern us, shall we? I swear, it’ll save us a ton of time and lower our stress levels.