Wife pushes husband to shorten his parents' month-long visits or get an Airbnb after years of handling the hosting alone: '[He] historically does not take PTO while they visit'

When having your in-laws stay at home, your household routines change, and your privacy can disappear. Imagine dealing with month-long visits every single year and having to host them all on your own. It can easily feel overwhelming over time. 

Living with in-laws can feel exhausting for some people, even if it is just for a few days. Imagine a whole month in which your husband works 16-hour-long days, and you have to cook, clean, and do house chores while he is away.