Woman refuses to reference an ex‑friend of 6 years, Daniel, for new job after he threw her under the bus and blamed her for failed project – FAIL Blog

They drift. There is no hard confrontation no big blowup just quiet distance and mutual understanding that something is off. Then, years later, after zero contact, the same person shows up asking for a favor. He wants a professional reference for a senior role at a solid agency and acts like all the history is just background noise. He is asking the person he once threw under the bus to now stand up and wave a flag for him.