This is how a lot of low-grade neighbor situations develop. Nobody makes a big announcement. There is no moment where someone says, “Hey, I am going to start using your address as my shipping address indefinitely, is that fine?” It just gradually becomes the situation through accumulated small asks until one day there are three boxes in someone else’s hallway, and the person who lives there is somehow responsible for all of them. By the time it feels like too much to accept, it also feels too petty to raise, because each individual package is such a small thing, and who wants to be the person who made a whole thing out of it?




