No, you’re not interested in low-effort conversations anymore. If someone wants anything from you, they’d better actually try. You won’t give your attention to anyone just because they’re looking pretty; you know you deserve more than that. You are not getting involved after a couple of ‘some Instagram user liked your story’, or ‘answered your story’ notifications. No more refreshing your inbox every five minutes waiting for someone to text you back. You are the one who’s choosing now. Â
Start gym classes, try yoga or pilates, pick up a new hobby, learn to cook something new, spend quality time with your friends. Focus on yourself. Find a purpose in doing the things that really matter to you, and your glow-up will come naturally, without even trying.




