Either way, it’s not ok to accept a position (literally and figuratively) that doesn’t make her comfortable. It’s sad, but in life, we have to stick to our principles or even our desires and give up trying to make other people understand them. It’s pointless to have long discussions about things the other person will never fully recognize; it leaves everyone exhausted, and it doesn’t take us anywhere. To have a more civil conversation, we can always use an excuse, such as: ‘Omg, something came up, I can’t go this time’, then forget about it and have an excellent vacation with our boyfriend. Some conversations are not worth it. Being only where one is truly appreciated is.



