30-year-old woman expects her 30-year-old male best friend to do every romantic relationship activity with her without actually being in a relationship, so he refuses: ‘Well she is now inconsolable, saying I am punishing her for not loving me’ – FAIL Blog

He has to be very careful not to blur his own boundaries, or the dynamic will perpetuate itself. I’m guessing this will lead to a friendship breakup, but it can also lead to some learning on her side. Who knows? Either way, it’s positive for him; he gets to root out this unrequited relationship from his life. Beautiful!

In my opinion, some things are better left unexplained. I don’t think it’s possible to reason with her any longer. I know it’s tough to lose a friend, but this relationship is no longer a friendship; it’s more like a parent-child relationship. It’s so much better to relate as equals. Also, he should run for the hills.