If he is really planning to break up with her over this, I have to say, even though it’s probably going to hurt, because every breakup hurts, it’s nothing more than a case of good riddance. Imagine spending your life with someone who can’t get past a conflict about a birthday celebration. I don’t mean to be mean, because birthdays can be important to some people, but they are surely not what defines a life or a relationship, so if he can’t get over this, he is, on the one hand, ridiculous and on the other hand childish. I hope she gets a boyfriend she doesn’t have to babysit! Or at least that it offers her the same treatment he expects.


