College student distances herself from best friend after discovering she secretly planned a Puerto Rico trip with another friend and contacted her ex during the vacation: ‘They went to all the places we said we would go together’ – FAIL Blog

AITAH for dropping a friend for excluding me on a trip?

I, (20 F) met my friend let’s call her Tenny (21 F) at college our freshman year. The moment we first met we clicked instantly and decided to be roommates since she didn’t have one. She was my only friend at that college and I cherished our moments together. We did have out arguments or disagreements like most roommates/ friends do but it was never anything that lasted more than a day.

 

Last October, Tenny planned a trip for her 21st birthday to Puerto Rico. She invited some of her hometown friends and her childhood best friend. As the trip approached most of the people invited weren’t able to make it or cancelled on the trip. At one point it was just me and her. She decided to invite our friend from college Vicky (19 F) last minute and she accepted. 

 

The three of us successfully made it to PR and from my perspective we all had a great time. We talked about returning together in the future and how we would go for longer since it was simply a weekend trip.
Fast forward to the first week of March of this year I reached out to Tenny and asked to hang out for Saint Patrick’s.