Is taking away a privilege the best way to teach respect?
Mom stories are my faveees, and you’ll see why. Below you’ll find a caring mom who wanted to have a special moment with her teen son, who’s been very angry and fussy, like any other teenager. She bought tickets to see her favourite band together, and she was so excited about it. He seemed excited too, although just a few minutes after they arrived at the show, we got mad and wouldn’t stop complaining. They ended up leaving early, and she was very sad about it, until….
She remembered her husband had bought tickets for her son to go see his favourite artist. Since the show is close to his birthday, this was going to be the birthday present, and the teen was thrilled. When they got to the car after leaving the show, she said to forget about the upcoming concert, since it was no longer an option for him. Needless to say, he was pretty mad.
I’ll start by saying that I’m not a mom, but I am an older sister who helped my mother raise my two siblings. And I’d totally stand with her if she ever had to decide on this one. If I wanted to have a nice time with my son, and he agreed to come with me to see my favourite band, I’d at least expect him to be with me there. Of course, I could understand if he liked other types of music, but in this case, he knew she liked the bad, so he had to put up with it.
I think the mom did wrong in leaving early. Although I imagine that being at the concert of your favourite band with your angry son is not the best scenario, I’d find a way to make it fun for me and stay. The band doesn’t play that often, and having to leave before it finished because of your whining teenager… let me say it’s just super annoying to read. Let me know in the comments what your opinion is and what you would have done.
Author: Kayitsi.com
